Fights.
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Ahem, he is having kidney failure due to all the salt and he still probably shaking his head over the postings...Originally posted by Quinsy:He never read those posts. Those were posted in bar, and needs to be taken with a packet of salt.
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:
yalor.. my ex also..
used to wipe my tears and even mucus with his fingers when i cry.
after break up he only said "sorry i din bring tissue."
My heart was breaking into pieces then.
Quinsy, things has already become this bad..
dun mind tell us what are the stupid things that he fight with u about?
Perhaps find out what made him fight with u over trivial matters..
could it be that he's under stress or he has a change of attitude towards you?
Then have a good talk with him..
Saw your earlier posts, and i think that you should be prepared for the worst.
hug hug Quinsy*- Just because I didn't have dinner with him, he sulks.
I changed his name on my phone to mr lizard for fun instead of his name, he complains and gets angry.
He speaks of small matters as if it's the world news and sometimes when I'm too tired, I tel him that i get it, he gets angry.
When I ask him to decide on somthing for me and I choose the opposite, he gets angry.... -
Andy, it's because of his stupid friends polluting and poisoning his mind.Originally posted by XciteZ:Chemistry reactions?
Find out what the tiny little things that result in both of you quarreling over minor things. like for eg, both of you having bad days, he didnt get enough sleep, he lost money on 4D that day or what. -
Originally posted by Quinsy:
- Just because I didn't have dinner with him, he sulks.
I changed his name on my phone to mr lizard for fun instead of his name, he complains and gets angry.
He speaks of small matters as if it's the world news and sometimes when I'm too tired, I tel him that i get it, he gets angry.
When I ask him to decide on somthing for me and I choose the opposite, he gets angry....
if my love one treats me this way ar..
i sure cannot take it de.
Ask him why has he been treating u this way.. -
Why is he acting like such a kid?Originally posted by Quinsy:- Just because I didn't have dinner with him, he sulks.
I changed his name on my phone to mr lizard for fun instead of his name, he complains and gets angry.
He speaks of small matters as if it's the world news and sometimes when I'm too tired, I tel him that i get it, he gets angry.
When I ask him to decide on somthing for me and I choose the opposite, he gets angry....
Is that his true colors showing after the honeymoon period? or it is one- time thing? How long U guys been together already? -
He's an only child. He's used to having things his way. Pampered. Been like that. 6 months together.Originally posted by shannie27:Why is he acting like such a kid?
Is that his true colors showing after the honeymoon period? or it is one- time thing? How long U guys been together already? -
Has always been treating me this way.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
if my love one treats me this way ar..
i sure cannot take it de.
Ask him why has he been treating u this way..
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woot!Originally posted by Quinsy:Has always been treating me this way.
that's long suffering..
for how long has he been treating u like that?
do u think u can live with it for the rest of ur life?
if not, say bye bye to him ba.
i need to feel loved/appreciated to stay in a r/s..
if i were u, i would have left him. -
I'm weak. I can't bear to leave him.Originally posted by browniebaobao:woot!
that's long suffering..
for how long has he been treating u like that?
do u think u can live with it for the rest of ur life?
if not, say bye bye to him ba.
i need to feel loved/appreciated to stay in a r/s..
if i were u, i would have left him. -
Only Child doesn't mean he can have his ways always wor............. can't be pampered everytime also....
I am only child also. I went all the trouble to prevent myself being pampered too much. -
Haiz.Originally posted by Quinsy:I'm weak. I can't bear to leave him.
hopefully he wun get violent to u.
The night before I read on the newspaper, a woman was being abused by the bf for 6, 7 years.. they even have 2 daughters but they weren't married.
He pulled her hair and knock her head against the wall, gave her blackeyes, and inflicted injuries on her all over her hands, legs, back and face.
Terrible. -
He's not violent towards me lah.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Haiz.
hopefully he wun get violent to u.
The night before I read on the newspaper, a woman was being abused by the bf for 6, 7 years.. they even have 2 daughters but they weren't married.
He pulled her hair and knock her head against the wall, gave her blackeyes, and inflicted injuries on her all over her hands, legs, back and face.
Terrible. -
What did you do to prevent yourself from getting pampered?Originally posted by XciteZ:Only Child doesn't mean he can have his ways always wor............. can't be pampered everytime also....
I am only child also. I went all the trouble to prevent myself being pampered too much. -
Sounds like sensitive, egoistic guy le... and lots of problems to come. Hey, a woman always deserves a guy that treats her like a princess and pampers her. Be good to yourself, find someone that loves you more than that. If he cannot give you what you want, then you are in for a long lonely walk, with him. Maybe he is not that into you? Or you probably need a trick or two from spidee's The womans' rules under noiseology. Dont waste time, find a solution, be good to yourself. Work it out if you can, but dont suffer for nothing. Good luck.
Some quotes for you here:
"Love can't take advice and lovers wont"
"A great part of love is in the imagination"
"A great love is seldom returned"
"Faults are thick when love is thin"
"Love a little less but a little longer"
"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" -
Toking abt love...? Read my siggy, Plzkthks.
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since your mother alr cut off your $......
then u might as well go on....
or u can do u bluff.
be strong. -
forget itOriginally posted by Quinsy:What did you do to prevent yourself from getting pampered? -
I start to pamper people I love more, especially the girls I like.Originally posted by Quinsy:What did you do to prevent yourself from getting pampered?
But I cut down on alot recently since there isn't much girls that are gems for me to dote on. And it really saved me lots of money.
Start to understand people more, start to treasure what I have, start to think more for others.
Start to think more and twice on things when I buy them or do them. Is it right or wrong.
Tried to put myself in shoes of others also, so that I won't neglect other people's feelings.
Started to control my temper, instead of making other people angry.
Anger management, money management and self-reflection.
I can't say I am sucessful in becoming a perfect person, but I at least try to be a better person each day, and try to know more about myself each day.
Can't afford myself to waste time drinking, gambling, playing and fooling about.
No point crying over what is past as I cant reverse time. Only can improve on my current situation to make sure that life goes on well.