I wanna to check in......
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I broke up wif my ex 2 mths ago... the pain still linger.. i still miss him very much.. I have not seen him for 3 mths.....
i want to patch up............ -
well, good luck..
but if it cannot, do try to let go?
in the meantime, i hope you will be well soon... -
whose fault in the first place?Originally posted by -ohyeah-:I broke up wif my ex 2 mths ago... the pain still linger.. i still miss him very much.. I have not seen him for 3 mths.....
i want to patch up............ -
i asked for breakup first... and forced him to agree.. coz i couldnt stand his neglience.... within 2 mths, we hardly went out together more than 4 times... every phone call. it lasted less than 15 mins.
later i regretted and wanted to patch up but he refused... he said i also ranted and vent my frustration at him.
now that... we are in talking terms... we have been talking to each other since we broke up. Yes, i was the one who called him and he did talked to me.
he did ask me to let it go.. leave this thing to destiny. he said" if there's chance for us to be together, we will......"
these sounds comforting words to me....
he said he was happy wif present lifestyle.. no worry, no distraction...... i was so hurt to hear it... not because i wan him to live worse than me.. at the mention "he is happy"... to me, it means he is happy without me.
recently, i called him to ask him something.. then he complained to me abt his army life.. i listened to him.... I might not be good at comforting words.. i was happy because at least he told how his life was.... i was so sad that i couldnt beside him.... -
few days back, he called me for a short chat.... he said he was bored so he called me. no matter wat, i was overjoyed to ans his call.....
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He feel bored? Wat a good reason. He wants to let you know tat he is lonely lah.....Originally posted by -ohyeah-:few days back, he called me for a short chat.... he said he was bored so he called me. no matter wat, i was overjoyed to ans his call.....
is it a good sign?
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he was in the office ( he is ns guy) doing clercial work..... at that time he got nothing to do so he called me.
if he wanted to tell me he was lonely... no use.. he doesnt wan to patch. he knew i want -
dun deceive urself ba.
u initiated the break up on impulse right?
this is juz the period where u two still cant get used to being single again.
sooner or later, u wun hear from him liao.
dun always think bbb like to discourage ple.
it's better to wake up now than to be like me, wake up 15 mths later, no one knows wat kinda hell I was going thru.
And yes, I'm going into depression again.
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Totally AgreeOriginally posted by browniebaobao:dun deceive urself ba.
u initiated the break up on impulse right?
this is juz the period where u two still cant get used to being single again.
sooner or later, u wun hear from him liao.
dun always think bbb like to discourage ple.
it's better to wake up now than to be like me, wake up 15 mths later, no one knows wat kinda hell I was going thru.
And yes, I'm going into depression again. -
seek medical help if u r suffering from depression, dun play play.Originally posted by browniebaobao:dun deceive urself ba.
u initiated the break up on impulse right?
this is juz the period where u two still cant get used to being single again.
sooner or later, u wun hear from him liao.
dun always think bbb like to discourage ple.
it's better to wake up now than to be like me, wake up 15 mths later, no one knows wat kinda hell I was going thru.
And yes, I'm going into depression again. -
Y u use indigo font also?Originally posted by zheshi:Totally Agree
i almost tot this is posted by me. duiz. -
dun worry, i wun kill myself yet.Originally posted by Manager433:seek medical help if u r suffering from depression, dun play play. -
hope your bout of depression passes very quickly
and choose to be happy, yah? -
wat if i wana choose otherwise?Originally posted by the Bear:hope your bout of depression passes very quickly
and choose to be happy, yah? -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat if i wana choose otherwise?
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ahh.. that'll be unfortunate then
still, i do hope you will find happiness sooner rather than later..Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat if i wana choose otherwise? -
thank u~Originally posted by the Bear:ahh.. that'll be unfortunate then
still, i do hope you will find happiness sooner rather than later..
hopefully.. -
i always believe no one can ever be good friends with his/her ex without racking up some hidden feelings for each other.
i once hang on to a failed relationship that breaks me up so terribly that i tot i will never recover, and that i will forever live a life, a life who's only purpose was to wait for her.
Those were the most difficult days of my life. I have since moved on in life. i guess the only advice i could offer is, letting go may be difficult but holding on is even harder. Let go of the past and leave each other with good memories of each other's company.Originally posted by -ohyeah-:i asked for breakup first... and forced him to agree.. coz i couldnt stand his neglience.... within 2 mths, we hardly went out together more than 4 times... every phone call. it lasted less than 15 mins.
later i regretted and wanted to patch up but he refused... he said i also ranted and vent my frustration at him.
now that... we are in talking terms... we have been talking to each other since we broke up. Yes, i was the one who called him and he did talked to me.
he did ask me to let it go.. leave this thing to destiny. he said" if there's chance for us to be together, we will......"
these sounds comforting words to me....
he said he was happy wif present lifestyle.. no worry, no distraction...... i was so hurt to hear it... not because i wan him to live worse than me.. at the mention "he is happy"... to me, it means he is happy without me.
recently, i called him to ask him something.. then he complained to me abt his army life.. i listened to him.... I might not be good at comforting words.. i was happy because at least he told how his life was.... i was so sad that i couldnt beside him.... -
you initiated the breakup, and now are you regretting doing so?
perhaps you should take time out and really give it a good tot. you have to decide whether to move on or otherwise.Originally posted by -ohyeah-:he was in the office ( he is ns guy) doing clercial work..... at that time he got nothing to do so he called me.
if he wanted to tell me he was lonely... no use.. he doesnt wan to patch. he knew i want -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:dun deceive urself ba.
u initiated the break up on impulse right?
this is juz the period where u two still cant get used to being single again.
sooner or later, u wun hear from him liao.
dun always think bbb like to discourage ple.
it's better to wake up now than to be like me, wake up 15 mths later, no one knows wat kinda hell I was going thru.
And yes, I'm going into depression again. -
y ur eyes so big?Originally posted by foga:
i heck care liao nowadays..
if u think im not doing a gd job as a mod here, then de-mod me ba.
My life is too depressing. -
yoyoyo` u should noe how to let it go since you took it up at the first place -
since he is so contented with his present lifestyle and already told you to forget about him,what's more to say?
he'd already let you go, and forget about you,he doesnt' want a patch.
he love his present lifestyle he'd already set his mind to accept another love, so might as well, you accept the fact too.
it's a blessing to be in love with him before isnt' it? at least you were once in love with him,keep it as sweet memories. you dont' know how to let him go,dont you? you cant' bear to bahs,
but the best way is to try and think of happy things,even without him, dont try to keep in contact with him while you are trying to erase him frm your mind.
it's hard to,when you wanted to erase a person frm your mind,yet you are contacting him. oh well..
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some people juz have to wake up on their own.