Road to recovery..wat have u done??
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wat r the things tat u have done, be it gd or bad, right or wrong, that have contributed to ur road of recovery aft a breakup??
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cried a little, mourned for what could have been, picked myself up, met with friends, had a good time, looked to the future, and decided to be happy and to look for someone whom i can love unconditionally and who would love me right back
still looking a couple of years later -
Cry, tok to frenz, cry somemore, mope over movie tics of movies we watched, soft toys he bought, went to places we pak tor to cry somemore, take bus go to his hse and stand there for hrs.
Was finally ok after 2, 3 years. Now still got think bt it, but can go out wif him, take dinner as frens and give him advice on his current gf without feeling any sharp pricks liao. Ü -
Stay clear of sgforums for at least a year or so.
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bury myself at home for a few days with no interaction with the outside world and ok liao..
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Actually it is after I found out that he had been cheating on me that gives me the courage to move on and dun look back..
It was terrible after the break up. He left me when I needed him most. Months later my father passed away.. I suffered another blow. Really disheartening that those that I love deeply din even comfort me...worse still, one was very ungrateful.. Stress from sch and home, health problem, and how I see myself as a failure in love made me fall into complete darkness. I hid everything inside me and put up a strong front. Till one day, I could not take it anymore...I exploded. Scary, even when I think of it now.. I still cry.
But luckily I still have some very good frens around who are always there for me, thru my ups and downs. And I'm truly grateful to them. It's very important to have frens' support..
Some of the things that I done.. Went for movie/concert alone. Went to places that we been to alone... to have a gd cry and also to tell myself that I can live without him... I can do those things alone.. I can go anywhere alone.. and tell myself that I'm back to single again. No matter how hard it is, I have to accept it and face the music. But he hurt my esteem.. this will take a long time to recover. Haiz~ -
stellazio's your medication..Originally posted by browniebaobao:Actually it is after I found out that he had been cheating on me that gives me the courage to move on and dun look back..
It was terrible after the break up. He left me when I needed him most. Months later my father passed away.. I suffered another blow. Really disheartening that those that I love deeply din even comfort me...worse still, one was very ungrateful.. Stress from sch and home, health problem, and how I see myself as a failure in love made me fall into complete darkness. I hid everything inside me and put up a strong front. Till one day, I could not take it anymore...I exploded. Scary, even when I think of it now.. I still cry.
But luckily I still have some very good frens around who are always there for me, thru my ups and downs. And I'm truly grateful to them. It's very important to have frens' support..
Some of the things that I done.. Went for movie/concert alone. Went to places that we been to alone... to have a gd cry and also to tell myself that I can live without him... I can do those things alone.. I can go anywhere alone.. and tell myself that I'm back to single again. No matter how hard it is, I have to accept it and face the music. But he hurt my esteem.. this will take a long time to recover. Haiz~
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Originally posted by stellazio:stellazio's your medication..
xiao di di, wat are u thinking har? -
In fact, i'm improved each time i'm down. I quit smoking, less alcohol, less pubbing....read more books, hahaha
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ran away from Singapore .....
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one can run, as far as one wishes to, but can one really hide forever from it?Originally posted by Fatum:ran away from Singapore .....
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I was ecstatic after break up... shioks... no stress... catch up with frens that i neglected.
one thing to share here...
if your girlfriend hates joining ur frens along, or keep having bad remarks on your friends, and restrict you from meeting your friends, and thinks she's the only person in the whole wide world who can listen to you... think again...
one fine day when u both break up, who is gona be there for you?
when one day u joke happily w ur frens... frens of many yrs... den she said u diagraced her by acting stupid infront of your friends... that's when u noe she cannot be your wife... dump her!! -
Not to forget...
changing my looks....... -
Haha
Listen to sad songs.
Read some inspirational books.
Stay at home,Switch off hp. -
ditched many girls le, scared they recognise u and throw their heels at ur face har?Originally posted by Manager433:Not to forget...
changing my looks....... -
face must hurt lots denOriginally posted by browniebaobao:ditched many girls le, scared they recognise u and throw their heels at ur face har? -
No lah.....must follow the latest fashion de.Originally posted by browniebaobao:ditched many girls le, scared they recognise u and throw their heels at ur face har? 
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haha.. then u always have to disfigure urself bcos of fashion la?Originally posted by Manager433:No lah.....must follow the latest fashion de. -
cried a lot... talked to A friend... appearance seem nothing happened but deep insde, PAIN PAIN PAIN
avoid listening to any music, i also talked to my ex and he comforted me. sent sms to my ex bat my feelings.. haizzz.. no replies -
for me, i quit my job, jog 3km everyday(loss 12 kg in 2mths), finish 2 litres of vodka, read "precious present" and "unlimited power", watch ai qing bai pi shu vcd, listen to some very sad song, play winning eleven.
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i still havent recover.....
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no worries, time will heal but of cse u cant keep on telling urself u will not recover...try harder n have faith in urself..Originally posted by monoslayer:i still havent recover..... -
I will do that as well.. To be as far as possible...Originally posted by Fatum:ran away from Singapore ..... -
true... but time will heal... so after awhile, when u are ready.. u can return to sg.. or better still.. look for a job with overseas posting.. so u can stay away for awhile & concentrate om career..Originally posted by foga:one can run, as far as one wishes to, but can one really hide forever from it? -
till now i m still hoping tat she will turn back to me n say tat she regret leaving me... haiz.. wishful thinking... hahahaha....