Is it right for a guy to cry in front of a gal?
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I am not talking about if u are a man or a wuss but there are some things that a girl can say that can really hurt a guy
Example:
Guy:Can't u see i done everything i can for u? I take blames for u when u are are fault,i try to understand u when u are unreasonable,i console u when u are sad,I defend u when u are even in the wrong...can't u see I really love u alot?
Girl:I never ask u to do all this for me,u are just plain stupid
Guy: U mean after all this,u treat me like a piece of paper,needed me,take me well but no,just throw me one side?
Girl:yes...u are only one sided love....
Guy:
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Pick up the pieces and move on, no use broodin over it... And remember that karma exists -
My heart aches when I see a man cry..at times la..
Coz people say nan er you lei bu qing tang..
But I won't label them as wussy or whatever coz I believe that they also have their rights to cry and to pour out all those feelings inside.
Anytime, as long as he is comfortable, I dun mind being there and lending shoulder for a guy fren or bf to cry on. -
If the girl said that..she is not worth crying for.
There are better girls out there.
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Nan er you lei bu qing tang,Originally posted by browniebaobao:My heart aches when I see a man cry..at times la..
Coz people say nan er you lei bu qing tang..
But I won't label them as wussy or whatever coz I believe that they also have their rights to cry and to pour out all those feelings inside.
Anytime, as long as he is comfortable, I dun mind being there and lending shoulder for a guy fren or bf to cry on.
Zhi si bu dao shang xin chu -
i will only cry alone in the comfort of my bedroom. will not do it in public or in front of anyone.
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Originally posted by Patrik:Nan er you lei bu qing tang,
Zhi si bu dao shang xin chu
yalor..that's y I find it so sad to see a guy cry.
Buf of course not those who always cry mummy la. -
it's not a matter of right n wrong, just tt some gals view it as a sign of weakness and unmanly behaviour..
For me, if the guy i like cry in front of me, i sure be touched n cry with him one.
But must have reason one la,cannot anyhw cry..
but if just a normal guy friend, honestly i don't really like it.. feel awkward... can't stand a guy crying.. -
Originally posted by Lovespirit:it's not a matter of right n wrong, just tt some gals view it as a sign of weakness and unmanly behaviour..
For me, if the guy i like cry in front of me, i sure be touched n cry with him one.
But must have reason one la,cannot anyhw cry..
but if just a normal guy friend, honestly i don't really like it.. feel awkward... can't stand a guy crying..
ehhh....then it's a little bit unfair ba? ur bf can show that sight of him but not other guys?
Till now..only 2 guy frens left me with deep impression..
during sec sch days..
first one cried bcos of his results..think so..that day juz got back results..and I saw him wiping his tears in the train..
second one was bcos his gf dumped him..and he realized that all along she was with him bcos she wanted to get close to his another fren..so sad..he cried during class..everyone had to console him..and he even used up my pack of tissue.
My exs never cried before..but ever saw their eyes red with tears.. -
Then...Originally posted by StarPuppy:I am not talking about if u are a man or a wuss but there are some things that a girl can say that can really hurt a guy
Example:
Guy:Can't u see i done everything i can for u? I take blames for u when u are are fault,i try to understand u when u are unreasonable,i console u when u are sad,I defend u when u are even in the wrong...can't u see I really love u alot?
Girl:I never ask u to do all this for me,u are just plain stupid
Guy: U mean after all this,u treat me like a piece of paper,needed me,take me well but no,just throw me one side?
Girl:yes...u are only one sided love....
Guy:
Guy: *uppercuts the girl*
Girl: Aieee!!!!
Guy: *roundhouse kick to the girl's face*
Girl: *crack*
K.O.!!!! -
every ending is a new begining ..
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den lyk this jialak liao.....tears flows outta my eyes everytime i yawn le~ how~~
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Trying hard but very diffcult for me to cry now. But to tell me to cry in front of gals is impossible, even when i am very very sad. Think if this thing even will happen i will also try to hide. The only person who will witness....is maybe my mum only bah....when i was young.
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there's nothing wrong with it, a guy is also human, can also cry anytime, anywhere, depending on their pride
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Andy Lau-Nan ren ku bah bu si zui
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No la.. even if it's my bf, he must have reason for crying... the lst few times seeing him cry,i'll be touched, but if too often will be immune le...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
ehhh....then it's a little bit unfair ba? ur bf can show that sight of him but not other guys?
My exs never cried before..but ever saw their eyes red with tears..
some bad experiences with my ex, he always cried in front of me.. used his tears to make me stay on.. and after tt, i got this phobia of seeing guys crying.. turned me off..
if tt guy happen to be my good frenz or buddies, or course i would lend him my shoulder to cry on. But still, i think a guy should not shed tears easily.. must have reason for their tears.. not cry over small issue like "quarrel with gf" etc... -
Originally posted by Lovespirit:No la.. even if it's my bf, he must have reason for crying... the lst few times seeing him cry,i'll be touched, but if too often will be immune le...
some bad experiences with my ex, he always cried in front of me.. used his tears to make me stay on.. and after tt, i got this phobia of seeing guys crying.. turned me off..
if tt guy happen to be my good frenz or buddies, or course i would lend him my shoulder to cry on. But still, i think a guy should not shed tears easily.. must have reason for their tears.. not cry over small issue like "quarrel with gf" etc...
quarrel with gf may not be a small issue..esp if he really cares about her and like her a lot. -
when a guy cries i will freak out.
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HahahahaOriginally posted by Quinsy:when a guy cries i will freak out.