your first love
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I got over her long ago, although it was difficult initially.
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still looking for it..lol..
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the past is and will forever be the past.
sometimes it's not the letting go that hurts, it's the holding back. letting go is never a bad thing either, it shows that one have emerge from it all being an emotionally stronger person.
like what bbb said, what can't kill you only serves to make you stronger.
cry all you can, talk abt it with anyone ( at times forumers seem a good choice, especially if never met before ), get over it and let go of the past. -
Originally posted by foga:the past is and will forever be the past.
sometimes it's not the letting go that hurts, it's the holding back. letting go is never a bad thing either, it shows that one have emerge from it all being an emotionally stronger person.
like what bbb said, what can't kill you only serves to make you stronger.
cry all you can, talk abt it with anyone ( at times forumers seem a good choice, especially if never met before ), get over it and let go of the past.
what can't kill me tortures me alive.
I rather die than to live with the pain for the rest of my life. -
it can allow do that to you only if you allow it....
a friend once told me,
"never be afraid of failure. Seek comfort in the fact that you have done your best, the very best you know how. And if u fail, dun ever look down on yourself, or blame yourself for it. Seek the truth, know where the problem lies and redeem yourself in the challenges to come. If fear comes knocking at your door, dun run, avoid avoidance. Challenge it. If you fall, stand up and stare straight into it's eyes and tell it "is that the best you can do?"
well, i guess we must all learn to stand up after failures. the measure of a man is not by how he can substain challenges and win every round of it. The true measure of a man, in my humble opinion, is by how he's able to stand up after each and every failure and carry on fighting.
god bless...my friendOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
what can't kill me tortures me alive.
I rather die than to live with the pain for the rest of my life. -
Originally posted by foga:it can allow do that to you only if you allow it....
a friend once told me,
"never be afraid of failure. Seek comfort in the fact that you have done your best, the very best you know how. And if u fail, dun ever look down on yourself, or blame yourself for it. Seek the truth, know where the problem lies and redeem yourself in the challenges to come. If fear comes knocking at your door, dun run, avoid avoidance. Challenge it. If you fall, stand up and stare straight into it's eyes and tell it "is that the best you can do?"
well, i guess we must all learn to stand up after failures. the measure of a man is not by how he can substain challenges and win every round of it. The true measure of a man, in my humble opinion, is by how he's able to stand up after each and every failure and carry on fighting.
god bless...my friend
Haiz -
Well said, thanks foga.Originally posted by foga:it can allow do that to you only if you allow it....
a friend once told me,
"never be afraid of failure. Seek comfort in the fact that you have done your best, the very best you know how. And if u fail, dun ever look down on yourself, or blame yourself for it. Seek the truth, know where the problem lies and redeem yourself in the challenges to come. If fear comes knocking at your door, dun run, avoid avoidance. Challenge it. If you fall, stand up and stare straight into it's eyes and tell it "is that the best you can do?"
well, i guess we must all learn to stand up after failures. the measure of a man is not by how he can substain challenges and win every round of it. The true measure of a man, in my humble opinion, is by how he's able to stand up after each and every failure and carry on fighting.
god bless...my friend
It's not a matter of whether I failed or not. I duno how to say, and dun think I will say.. jiu rang wo ba bei shang liu gei zi ji ba~ -
i respect your decision bbb.
but if u need a listening ear, u know how to contact me.
just take a "kok-kok-kay" bowl and a pair of chopsticks, face the direction of south and say my name 3 times.
jus kidding. u'll know how to contact me if u need a listening ear
Originally posted by browniebaobao:Well said, thanks foga.
It's not a matter of whether I failed or not. I duno how to say, and dun think I will say.. jiu rang wo ba bei shang liu gei zi ji ba~ -
First love...best to leave it forgotten, move forward and focus on your current love.Originally posted by Takumi2eLimit:the first love is always special...just like Jose Mourinho.... -
Originally posted by foga:i respect your decision bbb.
but if u need a listening ear, u know how to contact me.
just take a "kok-kok-kay" bowl and a pair of chopsticks, face the direction of south and say my name 3 times.
jus kidding. u'll know how to contact me if u need a listening ear
thanks foga. -
My first love was 32 yrs. ago and I remember her like it was yesterday.
How good it felt being loved and loving her, how my cheeks hurt from smiling so much, how good she smelled, how we responded to each other's touch, how the first time we made love I thought we'd be with each other always.
Things don't work like you hope they will sometimes. I haven't seen her for very many years. I miss her. -
I believe they are gd memories of yesterday?Originally posted by skid:My first love was 32 yrs. ago and I remember her like it was yesterday.
How good it felt being loved and loving her, how my cheeks hurt from smiling so much, how good she smelled, how we responded to each other's touch, how the first time we made love I thought we'd be with each other always.
Things don't work like you hope they will sometimes. I haven't seen her for very many years. I miss her.
to me, all gd memories turned stale. I rather not have them. -
I dont really think of her
but she will always have a place in my heart -
I still think of him alot. heartpain man. Wondering why he can be so cruel. the first cut is the deepest.
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when feelings have faded, what can't he do?Originally posted by Tier:I still think of him alot. heartpain man. Wondering why he can be so cruel. the first cut is the deepest.
he might not even care whether u are alive or dead. -
yeah its been 5 month since we had separated ways. The reason he wanna break off is no time as he is in ns.
1 month ago I still ask him, have he ever missed me, theres no reply . when suddenly he reply its "cant I have a peaceful nap?" I only gave 2 msg and its 2 times, 1pm and 6pm, who is taking such a long nap. I can feel that any msg from me is irritating to him.
I decided to let go le. yesterday I heard from my friend that he asked his another ex out for a pool game. feel a pinch at my heart and shockness flood my head. all along during we are together he never reply his ex msges and even treat her coldly now after we separated he asked her out?? That girl is a friend. its my mistake to choose a friend's ex. miserable.
if I gotta face them outside together, I would buried my head into the cement floor.
he once told me de bu dao de dong xi cai shi zhui mei de,(things that you cant get is the most beautiful ones) I did get frightened of his this word. now I could understand his words, the more I contact him, he just feel I am a easy to achieve stuff no challenge anymore. he treat me so rude.
Choose the wrong guy now I gotta suffer heartbreak. my heart is bleeding. I dislike this kinda first love. -
I agreed with this but I still tend to blame myself for not being gd enough for her, then I start to push myself to stretch my limit, both physically n mentally.Originally posted by foga:it can allow do that to you only if you allow it....
a friend once told me,
"never be afraid of failure. Seek comfort in the fact that you have done your best, the very best you know how. And if u fail, dun ever look down on yourself, or blame yourself for it. Seek the truth, know where the problem lies and redeem yourself in the challenges to come. If fear comes knocking at your door, dun run, avoid avoidance. Challenge it. If you fall, stand up and stare straight into it's eyes and tell it "is that the best you can do?"
well, i guess we must all learn to stand up after failures. the measure of a man is not by how he can substain challenges and win every round of it. The true measure of a man, in my humble opinion, is by how he's able to stand up after each and every failure and carry on fighting.
god bless...my friend
sometimes I ponder why I am doing this to myself.
is it to inflict pain on myself to forget about the hurt caused by her or to show her that I am gd enough for her n she should regret her decision for not accepting me??
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let him go, and set urself free. He is not worth waiting for.Originally posted by Tier:yeah its been 5 month since we had separated ways. The reason he wanna break off is no time as he is in ns.
1 month ago I still ask him, have he ever missed me, theres no reply . when suddenly he reply its "cant I have a peaceful nap?" I only gave 2 msg and its 2 times, 1pm and 6pm, who is taking such a long nap. I can feel that any msg from me is irritating to him.
I decided to let go le. yesterday I heard from my friend that he asked his another ex out for a pool game. feel a pinch at my heart and shockness flood my head. all along during we are together he never reply his ex msges and even treat her coldly now after we separated he asked her out?? That girl is a friend. its my mistake to choose a friend's ex. miserable. if I gotta face them outside together, I would buried my head into the cement floor.
he once told me de bu dao de dong xi cai shi zhui mei de,(things that you cant get is the most beautiful ones) I did get frightened of his this word. now I could understand his words, the more I contact him, he just feel I am a easy to achieve stuff no challenge anymore. he treat me so rude.
Choose the wrong guy now I gotta suffer heartbreak. my heart is bleeding. I dislike this kinda first love.
I will never go steady with a fren's ex. It will be damn awkward and embarrassing if they happen to share some secrets with common frens. -
haiz.. juz be urself.Originally posted by Kenashi:I agreed with this but I still tend to blame myself for not being gd enough for her, then I start to push myself to stretch my limit, both physically n mentally.
sometimes I ponder why I am doing this to myself.
is it to inflict pain on myself to forget about the hurt caused by her or to show her that I am gd enough for her n she should regret her decision for not accepting me??
wait for someone who will and is able to accept u for what u are, not making sacrifices and strain urself both physically and mentally. One day, u will break down. -
yeah now I am much better now already, I asked a friend out to talk about it, last week got depression after the news. yeah I regret being with him man, cause I thought we wouldnt part. I think I wouldnt want a bf anymore. I will forcus on my career and interest. I cant have many bf and hurt so many times. once sounds enough.Originally posted by browniebaobao:let him go, and set urself free. He is not worth waiting for.
I will never go steady with a fren's ex. It will be damn awkward and embarrassing if they happen to share some secrets with common frens. -
i can understand how u feel.Originally posted by Tier:yeah now I am much better now already, I asked a friend out to talk about it, last week got depression after the news. yeah I regret being with him man, cause I thought we wouldnt part. I think I wouldnt want a bf anymore. I will forcus on my career and interest. I cant have many bf and hurt so many times. once sounds enough.
pat pat*
but if u really get over him, i believe u will be willing to try again, but u will be more cautious lor.