How would you feel?
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Recently been hearing all these entertainment news about celebrities going steady, kena caught going on a trip to japan etc..one officially announce that they are together, one say that 'i will not disclose who is my girlfren till the day i'm married.'
If you were to be in a r/s with somebody, and apparently the other half dun wana tell your common frens that you are together..even after break up, still no one knows..how would you feel? what would you do? -
Whats there to hide????
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only he/she/they will know..Originally posted by Patrik:Whats there to hide???? -
actually its ok to me...cos when i together with my gf i at 1st also don like ppl to know abt it...even she also don wan...we don like ppl to comment on our relation...e.g keep asking so hows u 2? then they will spread ard and then everyone will say wa since when u 2 together?or steady nv tel me i gonna spread ard...then alot of prob arise ltr on (don have then good lo)...so when ppl ask we will deny we r together...but of cos now 2 yrs liao everybody know...except gf's parents...lol...
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Originally posted by $e@wEeD:actually its ok to me...cos when i together with my gf i at 1st also don like ppl to know abt it...even she also don wan...we don like ppl to comment on our relation...e.g keep asking so hows u 2? then they will spread ard and then everyone will say wa since when u 2 together?or steady nv tel me i gonna spread ard...then alot of prob arise ltr on (don have then good lo)...so when ppl ask we will deny we r together...but of cos now 2 yrs liao everybody know...except gf's parents...lol...
2 yrs liao and parents dunoe?
parents very strict ma? -
maybe becoz they scare their popularity will drop after that, scare people will write about them and etc..heard before some idols are not allowed to have bf/gf after they signed contract
if my partner 'hide' my existence, i also dun see any point being with him....of coz i wouldnt want him go ard 'jia luo da gu' tell people..
unless we just got together, wait until slightly more stable den when people ask or see us together, then will disclose..other than that..can't find any good reason...denying my existence make me almost the same as being his mistress like that.. -
agree with fog saoOriginally posted by BufPuf:maybe becoz they scare their popularity will drop after that, scare people will write about them and etc..heard before some idols are not allowed to have bf/gf after they signed contract
if my partner 'hide' my existence, i also dun see any point being with him....of coz i wouldnt want him go ard 'jia luo da gu' tell people..
unless we just got together, wait until slightly more stable den when people ask or see us together, then will disclose..other than that..can't find any good reason...denying my existence make me almost the same as being his mistress like that..
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act. these things cant hide 4ever,esp. our little island
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not mentioning until people ask or see is diff from hiding
some guys, even though their friends saw them holding hands with another guy, still can say they are still friends..somemore right infront of the ger
this kind of guys are 'yao bu de'! -
Originally posted by BufPuf:not mentioning until people ask or see is diff from hiding
some guys, even though their friends saw them holding hands with another guy, still can say they are still friends..somemore right infront of the ger
this kind of guys are 'yao bu de'!
well, but there are really people who hold hands and do things like couple do, yet they are not really an item. -
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quite true alsoOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
well, but there are really people who hold hands and do things like couple do, yet they are not really an item.
i mean those really couple den if the guy like that say
think really up to the couple themselves..some people like wad seaweed post prefer to keep it low profile, so that people don't bug them -
Originally posted by BufPuf:quite true also
i mean those really couple den if the guy like that say
think really up to the couple themselves..some people like wad seaweed post prefer to keep it low profile, so that people don't bug them
but once it's stable, and i feel that our frens should know...and we are still keeping it very low profile..
i will think...is this an underground r/s? why dun he want to let pple noe? it it bcos it's a disgrace to have me as his gf? or is he juz playing with me? -
He is not confident of himself?
He is afraid that once u meet his friends,u might find his friends better than him and that u might leave him for another of his friends.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
but once it's stable, and i feel that our frens should know...and we are still keeping it very low profile..
i will think...is this an underground r/s? why dun he want to let pple noe? it it bcos it's a disgrace to have me as his gf? or is he juz playing with me? -
Originally posted by Patrik:He is not confident of himself?
He is afraid that once u meet his friends,u might find his friends better than him and that u might leave him for another of his friends.
what if he dun have many frens...only one or two close ones..
what if he's a very confident person?
then how do u explain that? -
He is afraid of gossip.
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maybe one of his frenz like u.... den dun wanna let fren noe he's with u..
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Unless he's a celebrity....then i can be understanding.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Recently been hearing all these entertainment news about celebrities going steady, kena caught going on a trip to japan etc..one officially announce that they are together, one say that 'i will not disclose who is my girlfren till the day i'm married.'
If you were to be in a r/s with somebody, and apparently the other half dun wana tell your common frens that you are together..even after break up, still no one knows..how would you feel? what would you do?
But otherwise if not... probably he never accepted or recognise that the relationship even exist. If so, forget and move on... no point thinking over it again n again ba -
most likely.Originally posted by Patrik:He is afraid of gossip. -
xking hua zhong you hua?Originally posted by xking:Unless he's a celebrity....then i can be understanding.
But otherwise if not... probably he never accepted or recognise that the relationship even exist. If so, forget and move on... no point thinking over it again n again ba -
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Originally posted by shinta:maybe one of his frenz like u.... den dun wanna let fren noe he's with u..
pa shang le peng you de gan qing meh?
no la...this is v seldom the situation..
i have seen buddies gg after the same girl..even using underhand methods. -
wat thing? u asking wat will i do ma? i answer my view leh...u tink too much le ba... ok i admit la... ok...let everyone noe we 2gether lohOriginally posted by browniebaobao:xking hua zhong you hua?
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Originally posted by xking:wat thing? u asking wat will i do ma? i answer my view leh...u tink too much le ba... ok i admit la... ok...let everyone noe we 2gether loh hahahahaha
ni zhao si ma?
wat let everyone noe we together?
i know u and my dear together..
u dun tiao bo li jian hor!
wahlew~ dun create unnecessary scandal leh..
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:
ni zhao si ma?
wat let everyone noe we together?
i know u and my dear together..
u dun tiao bo li jian hor!
wahlew~ dun create unnecessary scandal leh..
bth~!