Originally posted by browniebaobao:it's xiao zi..and hor, im not xiao zi..im xiao ni zi.
Originally posted by duotiga83:ok...make things short.....like a girl for quite some time liao....only recently she kinda concern with me somehow....so mis commfor my brain thought there is hope....but then during the outing for midnite show she brought her bf which she recently attached.
Originally posted by mistyblue:I mention we hardly talk...
even over phone... its really once a week ... but i understand lah.
Then he said its because we are together more often
yeah, we are together more often, watching TV and not talking.
He sit in his side and watch,
I sit on my side and watch. There is no talking, no touching. Like 2 strangers sitting together beside each other. When its time, one will go off. Actually sometimes I am happy I am left alone... so that I can do wat I want.
Its difficult to approach such things without him getting angry, coming back with hurtful retorts and getting it all bent out of shape and then I have to back down, admit that I am wrong & apologise and then lower my expectations. Right now, I hit rock bottom. I don't expect anything and can't. I have come to the conclusion that I will eventually move away. Looking forward to owning my own flat. I am just empty and tired.
Its like plants.. you gotta water and nurture it then it will grow more. If you keep pulling out the leaves and do not water it, keep taking and taking from it ... the plant will eventually die..... I felt dead inside. Its been a long time now... You know, he said I did not keep a happy face in front of his relatives (they b!tch about these things) but to me, I didn't want to put in effort to even be nice..
Originally posted by zrahf:its nv gonna b easy man......really takes time to heal ar....even now i still haven get over mine fully le...still hab pieces n bits lft...most importantly is tt...live ur own life....dun let this bring u down....cos u make n carve ur very own road in life.![]()
bf gf onlyOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
Do you still love him? I wonder, are u juz couple or married?
seems to me that the feeling is gone? dun feel anything anymore?Originally posted by mistyblue:bf gf only
truthfully... what is love...
Originally posted by mistyblue:bf gf only
truthfully... what is love...
nice memories ... I wonder what happen from then to now...Originally posted by browniebaobao:seems to me that the feeling is gone? dun feel anything anymore?
how about looking at those photos u two took, those things u two bought, going to places u two went when u were still in the honeymoon period?
Originally posted by mistyblue:nice memories ... I wonder what happen from then to now...
Originally posted by drx:cry at why i lose her
hate her
advise by friends to forget her
realise i was so foolish to be blind by her faults when i am in love with her
understand why we break up
Learn from the mistakes
became more mature
become friends with her again
learn to treasure yr next gf even better
Actually is a whole cycle lar