Just a question..
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Ai ben wu chuo
zi shi ai chuo ren le!! -
Originally posted by Kenashi:Ai ben wu chuo
zi shi ai chuo ren le!!
Ai ren mei cuo
zhi shi ta bu ai ni. -
the one above is what I come up with when I am sad!!!Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Ai ren mei cuo
zhi shi ta bu ai ni.
that's why it is not the same
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Originally posted by Kenashi:the one above is what I come up with when I am sad!!!
that's why it is not the same
It's true ar...
I once said to somebody 'Ni mei you cuo, zhi shi ai cuo ren..' -
Of how everything ends even after I have given my all...
I still remember 3 years ago, I fell for my ex-crush, because I love him, I did everything I could to make him happy, I was ready to stand by him in any ways, even when it came to helping him chase after other girls...and even now he will come to me and tell me the progress he has made with the girl he likes...and I can only smile and swallow the memories of disappointment and pain...
Then I thought I could have a better chance with him, so again I put my all into the r/s, but he ended up disappointing me in the end. I felt betrayed, lost and like my heart is no longer with me anymore. The feeling of knowing you have lost something but don't know where it has gone...
Maybe all my life, I would be looking for it...
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Love is a feeling, feeling are never wrong.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
It's true ar...
I once said to somebody 'Ni mei you cuo, zhi shi ai cuo ren..'
only human make mistakes.
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Originally posted by Kenashi:Love is a feeling, feeling are never wrong.
only human make mistakes.
Feelings can cause one to make mistakes..
Never trust my feelings anymore.. -
Sigh I follow my feelings and see what I ended up with in the end...Originally posted by Kenashi:Love is a feeling, feeling are never wrong.
only human make mistakes.
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Love is blind but with each mistake u gained a new experience!!Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Feelings can cause one to make mistakes..
Never trust my feelings anymore.. -
Although I was hurt times b4, I still believe that out there, somewhere, someplace, there is someone for me!!Originally posted by icyprincess:Sigh I follow my feelings and see what I ended up with in the end...
i.c.y
Never let yr heart die, keep the hope alive.
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True...u learn something out of it..but also lose something..Originally posted by Kenashi:Love is blind but with each mistake u gained a new experience!! -
Develop this attitude
Yi Ge Ren de Jing Cai
na tian xing lai
hu ran xiang kai
bu yuan zai zuo deng dai de nu hai
na diao jie zhi
zha qi ma wei
kai shi bu zai xiang ni zi tai
jie shou wu nai
cheng ren shi bai
ta cai shi ni de ai
ji mo ban sui
zi you se cai
ying mian lai
tou fa shuai shuai da bu de zou kai
bu ling min xin di xiao xiao bei ai
hui shou Bye-Bye zhu ni men yu kuai
wo hui yi( zhao) ge ren huo de jing cai
ye xu ming tian
wo hui xuan ze zi ji luu xing
bu qing yi lian ai ye xu ming tian
wo hui yu jian
bi ni geng gua he de nan hai
jie shou ai qing zi you an pai shei cai
shi wo de ai
zi you se cai
ying mian lai
i.c.y -
the day he left me w/o warning... jus with an email n i nv met him again, n when met coincidently outside.. he jus walked right pass me as if he didnt noe me...
after few yrs of 0 contact, he contacted me again... kept in contact for abt a year, one day everything was jus like back in the past, held hands, hugs, but once again after that day... he jus left it hanging there, nv contact... msged him to say i want to step out (he didnt tell me he had a gf all along but i knew... ok i was dumb enough to accept him dat day.. probably cos its what i wished for in the past when we break? i duno..) confused.
he said he was @ fault... n said sorry... when i say i dun mind giving a try he said he couldn't commit... n asked me y the urge to b with him.. i was speechless.. seemed as if i threw myself @ him...
its hurt fr the same person twice... disappointment once n twice, till today i'm still affected alot by whatever happened... find it really hard to haf trust in r/s again... duno y i deserved all these... -
Originally posted by mek:the day he left me w/o warning... jus with an email n i nv met him again, n when met coincidently outside.. he jus walked right pass me as if he didnt noe me...
after few yrs of 0 contact, he contacted me again... kept in contact for abt a year, one day everything was jus like back in the past, held hands, hugs, but once again after that day... he jus left it hanging there, nv contact... msged him to say i want to step out (he didnt tell me he had a gf all along but i knew... ok i was dumb enough to accept him dat day.. probably cos its what i wished for in the past when we break? i duno..) confused.
he said he was @ fault... n said sorry... when i say i dun mind giving a try he said he couldn't commit... n asked me y the urge to b with him.. i was speechless.. seemed as if i threw myself @ him...
its hurt fr the same person twice... disappointment once n twice, till today i'm still affected alot by whatever happened... find it really hard to haf trust in r/s again... duno y i deserved all these...
I understand how you feel..
I dun understand..he had a gf and yet he was seeing you? And he told u that he can't commit?
I have come to realize that we cannot treat guys too good..like what u did..forget yourself, dun mind this and that, as long as u can be with him..seriously i was in ur shoe before..loved that guy too deep, put in so much, gave him all the love and care..but he dinoe how to cherish me. Perhaps like what peple say, we dun cherish things that come by easily.
Love yourself more. Find it hard to believe in r/s again? still duno y u deserved all that?
Sometimes things are fated, i believe things happen for a reason. You learn something from it..but it's a very very painful lesson. Me too, am trying to get up from the fall..but till now, still can't get myself to forgive and forget, to believe in love again, to open my heart again.. -
yea, treat them too good and they will take you for granted. That was the case with all the guys I have been with...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
I understand how you feel..
I dun understand..he had a gf and yet he was seeing you? And he told u that he can't commit?
I have come to realize that we cannot treat guys too good..like what u did..forget yourself, dun mind this and that, as long as u can be with him..seriously i was in ur shoe before..loved that guy too deep, put in so much, gave him all the love and care..but he dinoe how to cherish me. Perhaps like what peple say, we dun cherish things that come by easily.
Love yourself more. Find it hard to believe in r/s again? still duno y u deserved all that?
Sometimes things are fated, i believe things happen for a reason. You learn something from it..but it's a very very painful lesson. Me too, am trying to get up from the fall..but till now, still can't get myself to forgive and forget, to believe in love again, to open my heart again..
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very subjective bah... not guys like that bey.....Originally posted by icyprincess:yea, treat them too good and they will take you for granted. That was the case with all the guys I have been with...
i.c.y -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
I understand how you feel..
I dun understand..he had a gf and yet he was seeing you? And he told u that he can't commit?
all along was jus a friend thing... going out as a fren which i felt weird also... i mean i couldnt really treat him like a normal fren but we jus went out for movies n stuff lydat... it was only one day that we were back tgt in a sense.. when asked y... he say he's confused abt his feelings too n prob the reason to justify for what he's doing is prob we didn't meet for very long... dats what he said... actually i feel guilty abt all these cos i think i'm doing things which R not right in the 1st place... since i knew he was attached i shldnt haf seen him... till today tt girl don't noe n i hope she nv does... afterall i dun wish such things to happen to me... i'll prob get a retribution 4 that ba..
I have come to realize that we cannot treat guys too good..like what u did..forget yourself, dun mind this and that, as long as u can be with him..seriously i was in ur shoe before..loved that guy too deep, put in so much, gave him all the love and care..but he dinoe how to cherish me. Perhaps like what peple say, we dun cherish things that come by easily.
Love yourself more. Find it hard to believe in r/s again? still duno y u deserved all that?
Sometimes things are fated, i believe things happen for a reason. You learn something from it..but it's a very very painful lesson. Me too, am trying to get up from the fall..but till now, still can't get myself to forgive and forget, to believe in love again, to open my heart again..[/color][/b] -
Sometimes circumstances dun allow people to do the right thing?Originally posted by mek:
Well, I duno what i'm typing here..
But I dun discriminate third parties. I won't say u are third party..nothing happened right? And can see, right here, it's really up to the guy..you are juz like a chess haiz..
Hopefully you will get over him and move on ba..
Hopefully you will meet someone who truly appreciates, loves and treasures you.
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thanks.. hopefully ba.. its been 5yrs in all alreadyOriginally posted by browniebaobao:Sometimes circumstances dun allow people to do the right thing?
Well, I duno what i'm typing here..
But I dun discriminate third parties. I won't say u are third party..nothing happened right? And can see, right here, it's really up to the guy..you are juz like a chess haiz..
Hopefully you will get over him and move on ba..
Hopefully you will meet someone who truly appreciates, loves and treasures you. -
Aww..that's sad..Originally posted by mek:thanks.. hopefully ba.. its been 5yrs in all already