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that really IS her problem innit? She doesn't need a human. She needs a punching bag...Originally posted by EricDraven:Well, can't help worrying about how she is now.
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This is only my side of the story... Of course the real story may be different...Originally posted by HENG@:that really IS her problem innit? She doesn't need a human. She needs a punching bag...
Perhaps I am too one-sided in my story...
Perhaps it's really some problem of mine that made her always angry...
There's nothing right or wrong here. No pointing of fingers.
She is a nice girl... just that... perhaps... we are too different for each other...
So please don't judge...
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hi ericdraven,
if u feel tat both of u will be better off without each other, den u dun have to worry too much abt her. let her go, let yourself go too.
move on ericdazen, a step at a time ...
regards
fogaOriginally posted by EricDraven:Well, can't help worrying about how she is now.
I don't want her to be worse off without me. I want her to be better off without me. -
Trying to, Foga, trying to...
Slowly...
The earth can only spin so fast...
Thanks...
Have a nice day ahead... and hopefully nice week too. -
okok. I understand what u mean and i understand how u feel about her as well. Well, if u are determined not to patch up now, then don't. Btw how is she taking it? If she's not really bothering to talk to you, then I guess she should be doing ok without u.Originally posted by EricDraven:This is only my side of the story... Of course the real story may be different...
Perhaps I am too one-sided in my story...
Perhaps it's really some problem of mine that made her always angry...
There's nothing right or wrong here. No pointing of fingers.
She is a nice girl... just that... perhaps... we are too different for each other...
So please don't judge...
thanks... don't be offended. -
I don't know how's she doing. Can only hope she's fine. In the past, she will sms or call me but not this time. Guess she's also sick of this relationship.Originally posted by HENG@:okok. I understand what u mean and i understand how u feel about her as well. Well, if u are determined not to patch up now, then don't. Btw how is she taking it? If she's not really bothering to talk to you, then I guess she should be doing ok without u.
At least she's busy in her work. Hope work can replace her sorrows... Hua Bei Fen Wei Li Liang
3 days and 2 hours since we broke up...
Thanks for your concern Heng... Appreciated it man. -
np man. Anytime.Originally posted by EricDraven:I don't know how's she doing. Can only hope she's fine. In the past, she will sms or call me but not this time. Guess she's also sick of this relationship.
At least she's busy in her work. Hope work can replace her sorrows... Hua Bei Fen Wei Li Liang
3 days and 2 hours since we broke up...
Thanks for your concern Heng... Appreciated it man. -
Now wat? Wan to help her get over the "break-up"? Its over.. she's on her own now. Single & available for her next better suited 1 to enter her life since u'r not the 1.. Time to get ur own life back. More awaits.. cheersOriginally posted by EricDraven:I don't know how's she doing. Can only hope she's fine. In the past, she will sms or call me but not this time. Guess she's also sick of this relationship.
At least she's busy in her work. Hope work can replace her sorrows... Hua Bei Fen Wei Li Liang
3 days and 2 hours since we broke up...
Thanks for your concern Heng... Appreciated it man. -
I can only hope so. I guess at the end of the day, we're both adults (young ones) and we should trust each other to get on with each other's life.
Maybe I should stop treating her like a kid who can't fend for herself... Wrong old-dated conservative mindset of women...
But the strange thing is, I haven't really felt that sad and miserable like I used to... For the other breakups earlier, I would feel really lonely, miserable and guilty... Tears roll in my eyes whenever I think of her...
But now... I didn't experience such strong emotions... I feel bad saying this but I actually felt like a free man. A bit relieved. I think I definitely don't want to go back to square one again... -
Good luck to her....
All e best to u.....
Career, money, Cigarettes, N Family is more important to me.....
actually, move on.... it's better this way !
Okie, now you are single and available...
welcome to singlehood !!!!
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Singlehood sounds good... now I have all the time in the world to pursue those interests I gave up for the relationship...
*Be resolute, be resolute, be resolute*
I hope you don't see me coming back to post "Hey guys, I just patched back with..." -
U need to work on urself den... don't hope.Originally posted by EricDraven:Singlehood sounds good... now I have all the time in the world to pursue those interests I gave up for the relationship...
*Be resolute, be resolute, be resolute*
I hope you don't see me coming back to post "Hey guys, I just patched back with..."
We won't wanna see dat too.
Be firm. Gdluck
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if u do, tell me where u live. I'll come and give u a bite, and you shall have eternal life.Originally posted by EricDraven:Singlehood sounds good... now I have all the time in the world to pursue those interests I gave up for the relationship...
*Be resolute, be resolute, be resolute*
I hope you don't see me coming back to post "Hey guys, I just patched back with..."
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Thanks guys for your encouragement and support!
*Be firm, Be resolute, Be determined* -
or become one with the night.Originally posted by EricDraven:Thanks guys for your encouragement and support!
*Be firm, Be resolute, Be determined* -
EricDraven, i was in the exact same situation as u for the last few years, and it ended just not too long ago either, so i know how u feel. u dun have to feel sorry for not being to make her happy, coz it's not your fault. it's just her being too demanding. be happy that u have tried your best and given your all. wish her well and take the past as a happy memory. dun dwell on it, keep yourself occupied, spend time doing things that u had wanted to do but never got to do the last 3 years and it will heal the pain in due time.
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Thanks for the advice Devon, I can see that you knew how I'm feeling right now.Originally posted by Devon:EricDraven, i was in the exact same situation as u for the last few years, and it ended just not too long ago either, so i know how u feel. u dun have to feel sorry for not being to make her happy, coz it's not your fault. it's just her being too demanding. be happy that u have tried your best and given your all. wish her well and take the past as a happy memory. dun dwell on it, keep yourself occupied, spend time doing things that u had wanted to do but never got to do the last 3 years and it will heal the pain in due time.
Can't help thinking about those happy times we had together.
Just hope that time will flew past fast enough for the pain to go away...
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The heart-shaped clock didn't come out very nicely...
My girlfriend just sent me this sms...
I didn't reply... Hope I'm not too harsh on her...
Hope she is alright.. and sleeping soundly now..
Sigh, I think it'll be a long time before I get into another relationship... -
3 years of relationship... its gonna be tough on you.
i've been through this rough patch myself. After 3 years, after coming to 4, my ex told me that she wanted back her singlehood, something which she longed even so when we're still together. At that point of time, my heart just crumbled, broken into a zillion pieces and i was thinking was it that i didn't do enough. I had so much wanted to protect her and live my life together with her
Seriously i've always been giving in to her, letting her have her ways, sometimes forsake things that i wanna do for her and yet, things turned out this way.
i was sad and depressed and i clinged on to something that wouldn't happen, which was a patch coz while we were together, she said it once that if i ever broke up with someone, i wouldn't patch back with that person. i was being too persistent for my own good.
Right now, we're just friends. Still i miss her very much and so much wish that this hadn't happened. Now, we're more like hi and bye kinda friends and somehow i totally hate this feeling. i totally want to give up this friendship but yet somehow i don't want. All i am wishing now is that she is happy (i know she is) right now and the next guy who comes into her life wouldn't hurt her. i can't be bothered too much with the rest already. -
Hi sinned...Originally posted by s|nNeD:3 years of relationship... its gonna be tough on you.
i've been through this rough patch myself. After 3 years, after coming to 4, my ex told me that she wanted back her singlehood, something which she longed even so when we're still together. At that point of time, my heart just crumbled, broken into a zillion pieces and i was thinking was it that i didn't do enough. I had so much wanted to protect her and live my life together with her
Seriously i've always been giving in to her, letting her have her ways, sometimes forsake things that i wanna do for her and yet, things turned out this way.
i was sad and depressed and i clinged on to something that wouldn't happen, which was a patch coz while we were together, she said it once that if i ever broke up with someone, i wouldn't patch back with that person. i was being too persistent for my own good.
Right now, we're just friends. Still i miss her very much and so much wish that this hadn't happened. Now, we're more like hi and bye kinda friends and somehow i totally hate this feeling. i totally want to give up this friendship but yet somehow i don't want. All i am wishing now is that she is happy (i know she is) right now and the next guy who comes into her life wouldn't hurt her. i can't be bothered too much with the rest already.
I understand how u feel... It must really be tough on you...
I hope you're feeling better now... Sometimes, loving someone means letting go... like in your case.
We can only hope and view from afar that they are happy and content...
For me, I think our differences are too much... I don't think we will be happy together, spending the rest of our lives together...
I can only hope she can do so with the next person who comes into her life.
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i guess as long as the memories stay, the sadness will linger on. Of course there are happy times too but how often can the happiness overcome the sorrow of losing someone u loved with all ur heart.Originally posted by EricDraven:Hi sinned...
I understand how u feel... It must really be tough on you...
I hope you're feeling better now... Sometimes, loving someone means letting go... like in your case.
We can only hope and view from afar that they are happy and content...
For me, I think our differences are too much... I don't think we will be happy together, spending the rest of our lives together...
I can only hope she can do so with the next person who comes into her life.
Hope time will wash away your sadness, friend...
same as you, i guess i wun be walking into another relationship anytime soon.
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im in the midst of recovering from a failed 2.5yr r/s ..kinda like your case, she has a really bad temper and stuff. Always asked to break up countless times, in the end we patched.. until a couple months back i had enough and initiated the breakup after a quarrel.. blah blah..
it hurts real bad at the beginnin'.. it's like a tumour in you.. hard to get rid of.. and fate brings ppl together, i will keep my mind open.. who knows, one day we may get back together? Life is funny.. and the days will just pass by.
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I understand how you are feeling...Originally posted by risou:im in the midst of recovering from a failed 2.5yr r/s ..kinda like your case, she has a really bad temper and stuff. Always asked to break up countless times, in the end we patched.. until a couple months back i had enough and initiated the breakup after a quarrel.. blah blah..
it hurts real bad at the beginnin'.. it's like a tumour in you.. hard to get rid of.. and fate brings ppl together, i will keep my mind open.. who knows, one day we may get back together? Life is funny.. and the days will just pass by.
take care.
I wish you all the best too! There are other things in life out there to pursue... Even if we can't be man and wife, hopefully we can still be friends (I don't mean me with you, I mean me and my ex-gf, you and ur ex-gf!)
Take care too my friend...