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bery thin line to thread...just worried that i will compromise too much...Originally posted by JLennon:sure all of us will face that thought. maintain harmony in the family but do not spare the cane if need be
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u really ah seng fan.....Originally posted by gasband:We will all learn how to be parents and most of the learning, believe me, will come hands on. If u are humble even when u are a parent, u will become a good one. We dun noe what is good unless we fall down before. anyway to those worried about giving birth to child then will let them suffer, why think this way? why are u not giving them a chance to come into this world to explore the ups and downs of this world so that they may become a better person. If everyone wans their child to have it easy, it may be worse i believe when children no longer knows whats hardship, just like the JING MING in Taiwan Ah Seng.
ya lor that jing ming.. see his face feel like slapping him liao.... -
enjoy singlehood for the time being first lor and bear in mind all these issues.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:hahha.. ya lor... sound so old.. but this are issues that are inevitable...
do u think u have been well-brought up? if so, that means ur parents have set a good precedent (my apologies to de|usions here). -
no, i do not think that i have good brought up, in fact i think i nearly sink into the ppol of mud during sec sch days.. already one leg inside liao..Originally posted by JLennon:enjoy singlehood for the time being first lor and bear in mind all these issues.
do u think u have been well-brought up? if so, that means ur parents have set a good precedent (my apologies to de|usions here). -
that would explain my lack of moralsOriginally posted by JLennon:enjoy singlehood for the time being first lor and bear in mind all these issues.
do u think u have been well-brought up? if so, that means ur parents have set a good precedent (my apologies to de|usions here).
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ya lor hahahaha my mum always say me "how come u educated pple like these kind of shows..." to be frank i hate korean dramas cos they always cry one but somehow i like ah seng lah, maybe becos his background no good but he strives very hard lor...i like these kind of educating shows. now jing ming kenna castrated liao wahhahaha. but he will repent liao i think.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:u really ah seng fan.....
ya lor that jing ming.. see his face feel like slapping him liao.... -
not even married lah fren...... but good to think about this kind of issues cos parenthood is the route that i'll take.Originally posted by Peppermint:bery thin line to thread...just worried that i will compromise too much...
u a parent??
sometimes kids oso dem naughty now, nuay tahan them... dunno whether i got taht bad before... -
like that just avoid the mistakes that u think ur parents might have made. unless u have been the really naughty one then nothing to say lor.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:no, i do not think that i have good brought up, in fact i think i nearly sink into the ppol of mud during sec sch days.. already one leg inside liao..
can pull that leg out or not? if avoid vices, nobody can sink that long one.... if bad company, just leave that company. -
give u this scene...Originally posted by JLennon:not even married lah fren...... but good to think about this kind of issues cos parenthood is the route that i'll take.
sometimes kids oso dem naughty now, nuay tahan them... dunno whether i got taht bad before...
your child is playing monkey bars on the mrt train those railing thingy??
will u stop him as he is casuing a nuisance, (which is the politically correct thing to do), if so how? by force? words? threaten? sweet words? bribe?
or will u let him play until he falls and learn his lessons/people scold him. if he falls how would u make it such that it is a mistake for him to do that? -
Well i think parents play a very impt role here. but then sometimes there are so much they can do, take me for example. In front of my parents during sec sch time, i am one hell of a smart and good kid, i am respectful to elders, elders like me, i pass well in exams, i always read books at home, i wash my own dishes, i help with housework. They are also good parents, disciplining me, buying me things, gt me tuition, best parents i would say,Originally posted by JLennon:enjoy singlehood for the time being first lor and bear in mind all these issues.
do u think u have been well-brought up? if so, that means ur parents have set a good precedent (my apologies to de|usions here).
but little did they know i am a gambling addict who lost my entire bank book savings of 1000+ (alot during sec sch days), i also mixed with gangs, pontang school...
so my parents didnt know all these until i am very old after my army then i let them know my gambling past, they were surprised but since its so long, they neber say much also and think nothing of it. So well here goes, sometimes its realli the child's own thinking and character that is most crucial in his/her development. -
if he is causing a nuisance and to the extent endangering safety of the surrounding ppl, will definitely stop him using all available methods.Originally posted by Peppermint:your child is playing monkey bars on the mrt train those railing thingy??
will u stop him as he is casuing a nuisance, (which is the politically correct thing to do), if so how? by force? words? threaten? sweet words? bribe?
or will u let him play until he falls and learn his lessons/people scold him. if he falls how would u make it such that it is a mistake for him to do that?
or let him play? (in the hope that he falls...
there are times when u know there is no danger, can tell the kid off but if doesn't listen, let him fall and appreciate the folly of not listening. that fall worths more than my caning. -
Originally posted by JLennon:
enjoy singlehood for the time being first lor and bear in mind all these issues.
do u think u have been well-brought up? if so, that means ur parents have set a good precedent (my apologies to de|usions here).
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erm, my parent dont play a part in the moulding of my charactor, its the society...its the best sch one can get. -
Of course the best thing is to pull him/her aside and talk sternly about why certain things shld not be done just like what my fren always do with his son. but children being children, they go in one ear, come out one ear, so my fren always make sure as long as he can, he will protect his child from harm by giving them advice, scoldings, but he says he knows he cant protect them 24hrs and the whole lifetime so the hope is that even when he falls, he will have a chance to stand up and learn his mistakes. its something all parents go thru. anyway i dun think any parent will purposely let their children fall so to let them learn lesson unless its during the learning to walk part hahaOriginally posted by Peppermint:give u this scene...
your child is playing monkey bars on the mrt train those railing thingy??
will u stop him as he is casuing a nuisance, (which is the politically correct thing to do), if so how? by force? words? threaten? sweet words? bribe?
or will u let him play until he falls and learn his lessons/people scold him. if he falls how would u make it such that it is a mistake for him to do that?
or let him play? (in the hope that he falls... -
well, u can put a false front to the whole world and nobody knows... but u can't cheat from urself cos u would have to live the consequences of ur deeds.Originally posted by gasband:Well i think parents play a very impt role here. but then sometimes there are so much they can do, take me for example. In front of my parents during sec sch time, i am one hell of a smart and good kid, i am respectful to elders, elders like me, i pass well in exams, i always read books at home, i wash my own dishes, i help with housework. They are also good parents, disciplining me, buying me things, gt me tuition, best parents i would say,
but little did they know i am a gambling addict who lost my entire bank book savings of 1000+ (alot during sec sch days), i also mixed with gangs, pontang school...
so my parents didnt know all these until i am very old after my army then i let them know my gambling past, they were surprised but since its so long, they neber say much also and think nothing of it. So well here goes, sometimes its realli the child's own thinking and character that is most crucial in his/her development.
i guess u din sink deep so thats why ur parents were ok with ur past but in retrospect, u could just gone off the rails into some deep pit and not even having the chance to reflect on what u have done. i think an aspect that a parent can instill in their kids is discipline. by being disciplined, the kid knows when to take a step back to reflect and redress his ways. the irony will be that a disciplined child may not even dabble with wrong company. -
ya thats why i say parents can onli do so much sometimes, they can impart all the right values and discipline u, but once the child is out of sight, they become havoc, so i guess the crux still lies with the child, his ability to interpret good and bad, right from wrong.Originally posted by JLennon:well, u can put a false front to the whole world and nobody knows... but u can't cheat from urself cos u would have to live the consequences of ur deeds.
i guess u din sink deep so thats why ur parents were ok with ur past but in retrospect, u could just gone off the rails into some deep pit and not even having the chance to reflect on what u have done. i think an aspect that a parent can instill in their kids is discipline. by being disciplined, the kid knows when to take a step back to reflect and redress his ways. the irony will be that a disciplined child may not even dabble with wrong company. -
donno why there are still ah beng...and ah lian..sux man.
actually this problem also lies with family with lots of kids...
no flaming but malays tends to haf more kids than chinese...no need money support one meh? -
Originally posted by De|usi0n:erm, my parent dont play a part in the moulding of my charactor, its the society...its the best sch one can get. society is a hard-knock school, not forgiving at all. u must have been a model student, good for u.
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there's a thread on malays. writes about free education and subsidies. dunno whether mendaki helps out in any other way too.Originally posted by De|usi0n:donno why there are still ah beng...and ah lian..sux man.
actually this problem also lies with family with lots of kids...
no flaming but malays tends to haf more kids than chinese...no need money support one meh? -
i think they no need pay tax or what lah...anyway, actually government now wan pple to have more kids, cos our population is aging so when these people dies, no one to take over their roles, our society very imbalanced leh...so i encouraged all of u out there, Don's Stop At 2. hahahahaha....Originally posted by De|usi0n:donno why there are still ah beng...and ah lian..sux man.
actually this problem also lies with family with lots of kids...
no flaming but malays tends to haf more kids than chinese...no need money support one meh?
personally i onli wan 2 children. hehehe -
either u survive and learn something out of it, or u get beated and fade into the background.Originally posted by JLennon: society is a hard-knock school, not forgiving at all. u must have been a model student, good for u.
cursing upon urself, blaming society, uprising against government....etc.
we all need to be street smart but at the same time remember not to chunk on a meat that is too big for urself....get urself choke oni.
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so many cannot support than neber sent them to sch...they become bad apples...wat's the point..singapore encourage us to haf more kids..not more parasite for the society.Originally posted by gasband:i think they no need pay tax or what lah...anyway, actually government now wan pple to have more kids, cos our population is aging so when these people dies, no one to take over their roles, our society very imbalanced leh...so i encouraged all of u out there, Don's Stop At 2. hahahahaha....
personally i onli wan 2 children. hehehe