Burning Money....
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hopefully not lor.. me also cross my fingers....Originally posted by JLennon:sigh... agree... some of my frens thinnk that bring a kid to this world is to expose the kid to hardships oni, so dun intend to have a family. crux of a good family lies in a harmonious marriage first. next time my kid like dat, sure dunno wat to do. -
can still be good..like i said it depends on the parents..Originally posted by De|usi0n:agree..some ah beng shotgun ah lian, got married, how will their child be like....
as a child mind is blank so called....expousure to different things will determine how the child turns out... -
ya i agree.. not all.. but most... and they lack independence and self esteem.. that's y they result to "sun-you"...Originally posted by De|usi0n:not necessary from broken or problem family...now ever rich man's son also steal...wat u think? the kids knows that so long got $$ can get them out of any shi t.
btw, i came from a broken family and becoming a very indepence person.
good to hear that u are not one of them.... -
at least its work part time....i have some gal friends...they offer sexual servicesOriginally posted by Qoo`~`:they do not haf as much commitment as working adults.. they pocket money only use to buy food.. the rest is up to them to spend on branded and cigarette i think... some even work part time, that where they get their money..... -
what if they nber turn back??? and remain like that and regret for the rest of their lives?Originally posted by zacken99:well...alll this r jus a bi jing lu chen....it better to let then exp..nw rather then grow old than turn bad... -
As i believe, some people will only know the benefits until they gone through the consequences, so hope these young people wake u p their ideas one day and become an useful person....
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erm, intro leh...heheOriginally posted by Peppermint:at least its work part time....i have some gal friends...they offer sexual services
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Yeh! the example tt parents giv is vry important. knew tis gal once and her parents smoke, i was in total cultural shock wen i visited once and while watchg tv w her family and they all lit upOriginally posted by De|usi0n:agree..some ah beng shotgun ah lian, got married, how will their child be like.... 
i personally nvr smoke at home cause my parents dnt smoke. they knw i do but i giv thm the respect by nvr doing it infront of thm. I dnt think i can ever bring myslf to do tt. -
i experience a few cases like that.... one of them is my cousin, but lucky for him, he father is rich.. he and his wife not working... children all live on his father...Originally posted by De|usi0n:agree..some ah beng shotgun ah lian, got married, how will their child be like.... -
it must be you rightOriginally posted by De|usi0n:erm, intro leh...hehe
i pay gd money
happy to say they are out of it now...just doing it to support their lifestlye and school fees -
who knows maybe they really have ku zhong one...Originally posted by Peppermint:at least its work part time....i have some gal friends...they offer sexual services -
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If they all wanna smoke, go to a place where there is no one around lah. Dun smoke when there are non-smokers around and pollute them lah.[/size] -
looks like the father (as in your cousin) a bit nua leh...Originally posted by Qoo`~`:i experience a few cases like that.... one of them is my cousin, but lucky for him, he father is rich.. he and his wife not working... children all live on his father... -
oops...i thought i was helping them in some way or another..Originally posted by Peppermint:it must be you right
happy to say they are out of it now...just doing it to support their lifestlye and school fees
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but poor family backgrond can sometimes produce children of extraordinary future...just look at Taiwan Ah seng haahahhaa....but seriously its true, becos they gone thru the hard things in life, sometimes they become mat ured faster and more shrewd.
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that place is public area mar.... open air somemore..Originally posted by Shiok!!!:[color=darkblue] If they all wanna smoke, go to a place where there is no one around lah. Dun smoke when there are non-smokers around and pollute them lah.[/size] -
ya lor ya lor.. being force to grow up fast...Originally posted by gasband:but poor family backgrond can sometimes produce children of extraordinary future...just look at Taiwan Ah seng haahahhaa....but seriously its true, becos they gone thru the hard things in life, sometimes they become mat ured faster and more shrewd. -
hopeless case i think.. the father (my uncle) also nber bother one.. dun wan his son to suffer hardship..... he always boost that his wealth can last him 3 generations.. we just watch and see how true issit lor......Originally posted by Peppermint:looks like the father (as in your cousin) a bit nua leh...
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i think its in the blood of the chinese, to build up dynasty so that the descendents can enjoy. in the end, all these descendents suffer cos they dunno hardship. at least the least they can do is to study and get a good cert themselves.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:hopeless case i think.. the father (my uncle) also nber bother one.. dun wan his son to suffer hardship..... he always boost that his wealth can last him 3 generations.. we just watch and see how true issit lor......
hm... wonder whether we would exchange notes on parenthood over this forum or not???? sounds dem old leh.... -
yours leh?Originally posted by Qoo`~`:hopeless case i think.. the father (my uncle) also nber bother one.. dun wan his son to suffer hardship..... he always boost that his wealth can last him 3 generations.. we just watch and see how true issit lor......
can last how long?
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i am afraid of becoming a father actually....i am afraid i will fail terrible as a one...Originally posted by JLennon:i think its in the blood of the chinese, to build up dynasty so that the descendents can enjoy. in the end, all these descendents suffer cos they dunno hardship. at least the least they can do is to study and get a good cert themselves.
hm... wonder whether we would exchange notes on parenthood over this forum or not???? sounds dem old leh.... -
We will all learn how to be parents and most of the learning, believe me, will come hands on. If u are humble even when u are a parent, u will become a good one. We dun noe what is good unless we fall down before. anyway to those worried about giving birth to child then will let them suffer, why think this way? why are u not giving them a chance to come into this world to explore the ups and downs of this world so that they may become a better person. If everyone wans their child to have it easy, it may be worse i believe when children no longer knows whats hardship, just like the JING MING in Taiwan Ah Seng.
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sure all of us will face that thought. maintain harmony in the family but do not spare the cane if need beOriginally posted by Peppermint:i am afraid of becoming a father actually....i am afraid i will fail terrible as a one... -
hahha.. ya lor... sound so old.. but this are issues that are inevitable...Originally posted by JLennon:i think its in the blood of the chinese, to build up dynasty so that the descendents can enjoy. in the end, all these descendents suffer cos they dunno hardship. at least the least they can do is to study and get a good cert themselves.
hm... wonder whether we would exchange notes on parenthood over this forum or not???? sounds dem old leh.... -
mine ar... can only afford to for himself only. kekkeeOriginally posted by e|mo:yours leh?
can last how long?